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Welcome to the Capacity Conversations Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis. Based on five pillars, we talk about how to create flow in each area, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you. The five pillars are: 1. Heart Flow - Relationships, Values & Boundaries 2. Work Flow - Growth, Fulfillment & Balance 3. Health Flow - Mental, Emotional & Physical 4. Cash Flow - Mindset, Habits & Legacy 5. Faith Flow - Foundation & Functioning
Episodes

Saturday May 14, 2022
EP 70 - Sandra Ocasio: Reclaiming Your Identity
Saturday May 14, 2022
Saturday May 14, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
Have you ever had back to back changes in your personal and professional life? Did you power through the changes because that’s what you’re used to doing? Of course you have! I asked those questions because on the other side of those changes, many of us struggle with something called identity loss, but we don’t exactly call it that.
Identity loss happens when you experience dramatic life changes such as losing social relationships (think pandemic/isolation and losing loved ones), losing a job (again, pandemic) and in general when you lose your sense of self and self-with due to all the changes.
In today’s episode, I talk with Sandra Ocasio about her experience with identity loss. After moving from Las Vegas to a small town in Florida in 2016 due to her husband’s role in the military, Sandra thought she was losing her mind but she really lost her identity. She goes in to detail to help us understand:
- What identity loss looks and feels like
- Some of the triggers or symptoms
- How to reclaim your identity
She graciously shares what she calls the S.T.E.P.U.P. Method and how she used it to rebuild her life as a Digital Launch Coach who now helps coaches launch five and six figure coaching programs.
STEP UP Method:
S - Self Awareness
T - Therapy for Trauma
E - Expand your Mindset
P - Personal Development
U - Upgrade your Vision
P - Pursue Purpose w/Unshakable Passion
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with us on social media. I love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
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Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Ep. 69 - Essential vs. Important
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
When we talk about managing our time, we have to learn how to tell the difference between what’s essential and what’s important. If you don’t you’ll keep going in circles and giving your time, energy and resources (aka capacity) to everything and everybody.
In today’s episode, I share with you a few things that will help you manage your capacity and create your ideal work-life balance:
- The difference between essential and important
- Real life examples to help you know the difference
- 5 tips on How to know the difference between the two
5 Tips to help you choose between essential and important:
- Identify your values
- Assess where you’re spending time
- Decide what needs to shift
- Map out where it needs to go moving forward
- Set some boundaries
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with me on social media. I love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
Nicole’s Contact Info:

Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
EP 68 - Aaja Corinne Magee: Branding From the Inside Out
Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
Branding is something you need whether you know it or not. In fact, you are a walking brand all by yourself. What most don’t realize though, is that there’s so much more to branding than logos, pretty colors and font choices.
In today’s episode, I talk with Aaja Corinne Magee, a Chicago-based branding strategist, messaging specialist, and speaker who helps purpose-driven entrepreneurs and leaders to become the undeniable choice. She specializes in the art of communication, partnering with clients to bring synergy to their purpose and profession, raise their profile, and increase their influence, so that they are positioned to create impact on a greater scale.
She gives all the tea on how to build your brand from the inside out, and shares three tips on how to show up as your authentic self to maximize your brand:
- Find you unique place
- Allow God to use you
- Take inventory
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with us on social media. I love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
Nicole’s Contact Info:
Website Complimentary Capacity Check-in Capacity Calculator
Instagram Flow and Flourish Community LinkedIn
Aaja’s Contact Info

Thursday Mar 31, 2022
EP 67 - Patrice Washington: Redefining Wealth
Thursday Mar 31, 2022
Thursday Mar 31, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
In today’s episode, I talk with my mentor, the one and only, Patrice Washington, about how she’s making history all over the world! In 2020, SUCCESS Magazine named Patrice Washington one of 12 Inspiring Black Voices in Personal Development and she continues to be consistently called on for her expertise by national media. As an award-winning intuitive author, transformational speaker, hope-restoring coach, and conscious media personality, Patrice is committed to teaching a holistic approach to life while redefining the term “wealth” back to its original meaning, “well-being.”
Patrice got her start as “America’s Money Maven,” a widely-known favorite personal finance expert, but has since expanded her mission to encourage people to chase purpose, not money. She uses her Certification in Financial Psychology to help the masses get beyond budgets and credit reports and dive into the heart of why we behave the way we do with money. Through her Spirit-led teachings and intuitive guidance, Patrice empowers her community to look at life through the lens of abundance and opportunity, instead of lack and scarcity.
As host of her award-winning “The Redefining Wealth Podcast,” Patrice has built a thriving international community of high-achievers committed to creating a fulfilled life through balancing their careers, home, health, and personal finances. Featured on Forbes.com as one of 15 Inspiring Podcasts for Professionals of Every Stripe," and highlighted by InStyle Magazine, SUCCESS magazine and Entrepreneur.com, the Redefining Wealth Podcast boasts over 10 million downloads and counting.
Patrice shares with us about:
- Shifting from America’s Money Maven to Chasing Purpose
- How to give yourself permission to live the life you desire
- The true meaning of wealth outside of just money
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with us on social media. I love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
Nicole’s Contact Info:
Website Complimentary Capacity Check-in Capacity Calculator
Instagram Flow and Flourish Community LinkedIn
Patrice's Contact Info

Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
EP 66 - Leandra Roche: Purpose Ain’t Easy
Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
As an entrepreneur, have you ever heard, if you build it they will come? Welllll… it kinda works like that, but there’s a whole lot more that goes into it. What “they” don’t tell you is about the blood, sweat and tears that go into building a business and pursuing purpose… it ain't’ easy!
In today’s episode, I talk with multi-business owner, Leandra Roche. With over 25 years in the Beauty Industry, Leandra has been promoting, and advocating for healthy hair as a way of life. As a Licensed Cosmetology Instructor, Cosmetologist and Salon owner for over 20 years, she has serviced and dedicated her time to thousands of clients and many budding entrepreneurs.
Not only does Leandra have extraordinary skills in Professional Hair Styling, she also is a Master Educator of Cosmetology, an entrepreneur trailblazer and Team Leader like no other. Training others to do the same is her passion, which led to the creation of her hands-on educational and training course, The Salon Readiness Program. It’s aimed at helping those who want to get in the salon ownership business to be successful and have access to more than just doing hair.
Additionally, Leadra is the creator of the annual networking conference "The Dreamers Conference", which has been around for 6, going on 7 years, and is an event that educates and assists entrepreneurs with the necessary tools and resources to help them to succeed in business.
In this amazing episode, Leandra shares with us how to go from triage to triumph in our personal and professional lives:
How to go from Triage to Triumph
- Practice self awareness
- Speak life at all times
- Reinvent
- Pursue
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with us on social media. I love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
Nicole’s Contact Info:
Website Complimentary Capacity Check-in Capacity Calculator
Instagram Flow and Flourish Community LinkedIn
Leandra’s Contact Info

Friday Mar 25, 2022
EP 65 - You Need the Career Salon
Friday Mar 25, 2022
Friday Mar 25, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
Do you go to the salon to get your hair or nails done? Yup, me too! Did you know you can go to the salon for your career too?!?!?!?! Yes, you most certainly can!
We are still celebrating Women’s History Month here on the Flow and Flourish Podcast, and what greater way than to highlight two amazing women who are literally making history in the HR Space.
In today’s episode, I talk with Camile Tate and Carla Patton, owners of The Career Salon, LLC, and hosts of The Career Salon Podcast. Together, these two dynamic ladies are known around the world as the HR Twins.
They are certified professionals in HR and bring almost 20 years of experience in the field, and pride themselves in providing organizations and individuals with a safe space to talk openly and honestly about navigating HR topics. Additionally, their bi-weekly Podcast is on all streaming platforms and covers issues related to career mobility, diversity, and inclusion, recruiting, job searching, organizational culture, and leadership.
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with us on social media. I love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
Nicole’s Contact Info:
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Instagram Flow and Flourish Community LinkedIn
The Career Salon’s Contact Info
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Tuesday Mar 22, 2022
EP 64 - Get Your Cash Flow Together
Tuesday Mar 22, 2022
Tuesday Mar 22, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
Money makes the world go round, and how you handle it significantly impacts EVERY. SINGLE. AREA. of your life. Although I’m not a money expert, I can speak to how my lack of money management skills impacted my mental health (depression and anxiety), physical health (major hair loss), and of course my bank account (I was the payday loan queen, you hear me?)!!!
In today’s episode, I talk with the Wealthy BossBabe, Natasha Harris. She is a Realtor & Wealth & Biz Mentor located in Toronto, Canada. After paying off $20k in debt in just 18 months, Natasha has taken the valuable lessons she learned and now passes them on to other women who desire to live a holistically wealthy lifestyle through coaching, where money management, Increasing Income, Sales, and Real Estate Investing are the main focus.
She shares 3 tips you can use to get your Cash Flow together ASAP as well 3 tips to help you create and hit your income goals:
3 Tips You to Get Your Cash Flow Together:
- Put yourself first - meet your own money needs first
- Start where you are to pay off debt
- Practice self-care - taking care of your money is a form of self-care
3 Tips to Create and Hit Income Goals:
- Be intentional and specific with your budget
- Identify what you’re selling (product vs service)
- Create a pricing strategy to meet your goals
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with us on social media. I love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
Nicole’s Contact Info:
Website Complimentary Capacity Check-in Capacity Calculator
Instagram Flow and Flourish Community LinkedIn
Natasha’s Contact Info

Thursday Mar 17, 2022
EP 63 - The Cost of Freedom
Thursday Mar 17, 2022
Thursday Mar 17, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
Free your mind and you a#$ will follow… (I didn’t say it, EnVogue did!), but you know it’s the truth.
Too many of us are running around with what I call “secret struggles”, and battling shame, guilt, low confidence or a combination of them all, when it comes to our past. Whether or we know it or not, unaddressed guilt, shame and trauma can take a toll on our mental, physical, and emotional health, our relationships and our finances… aka take up our capacity and block us from being able to flow and flourish.
That’s exactly why in today’s episode, I talk with Healing Coach, Latoya Mathews, who after years of dealing with shame and guilt, rediscovered the hope and freedom that she now helps other women accept and treasure.
Like the other episodes, get your pen and paper ready because she shares with us her 5 Pillars of Freedom, designed to help you heal, overcome self-doubt, release strongholds, and experience deep freedom from your deepest valleys.
5 Pillars of Freedom
- Peace Making
- Pattern Breaking,
- Personal Identity
- Permission to Dream
- Power of Habits
She also gives 4 tips to start your healing journey today:
Healing Journey Tips:
- Change your perspective
- Give yourself permission to change
- Be willing to change
- Get in some fresh soil
Listen to the episode to get the details on her story, her healing and how she’s helping women all over the world do the same thing and get free!
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with us on social media. We love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
Nicole’s Contact Info:
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Latoya’s Contact Info

Saturday Mar 12, 2022
EP 62 - Embrace Your Power
Saturday Mar 12, 2022
Saturday Mar 12, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
In this episode, I talk with Denise Taylor, a multi-passionate, gifted and influential woman who is on a mission to help us live lives we love, without an apology. Denise is a Success Strategist and Career, Lifestyle, & Relationship Coach, an author, wife, mom and transformational Speaker, who empowers professional women world-wide. As an entrepreneur, she manages & oversees Next Level Business Consulting, is the Founder of the “First Wives Club”, is licensed by the John Maxwell Team, owns Travel with The Taylors with her husband Chuck of 25 years and is an Independent Consultant with Pampered Chef.
Listen to learn about what she calls the 5 Success Super Powers!

Tuesday Mar 08, 2022
EP. 61 - How to Build Wealth and Legacy
Tuesday Mar 08, 2022
Tuesday Mar 08, 2022
Welcome to the Flow and Flourish Podcast. This is what I like to call a “sister-friend” community, which is the safe space to talk openly and honestly about the challenges we face while managing the competing priorities between our personal and professional lives. Many of us are either in corporate, an entrepreneur of a combination of the two, on top of being moms, wives, caregivers, big sister’s or just the go-to person in our circles of friends and families. Having all that responsibility can leave you overwhelmed and depleted if you don’t take inventory of where you’re at on a regular basis.
I can’t tell you how many times I hear people talk about wanting to build wealth and legacy… but sometimes it stays right there, in talk-mode. As a woman on a mission to do both of those things, I wanted to speak with and share with you someone who can teach us how to walk the talk!
In today’s episode, I talk with Mariah Street, Esq., a licensed attorney in North Carolina, and the CEO & Managing Attorney of Legacy Street Law. This firm is a modern, virtual, down-to-earth, NC-based law firm, with a primary focus on providing culturally relevant education and customized legacy, wealth, and business planning to legacy-minded business owners and their families
After listening to this episode you’ll be able to understand why:
- Having a will is not enough
- You have to ditch the legal DIY
- Legacy building is essential
She also shares tips to help us as individuals get our wealth and legacy together through:
- Mindset
- Motivation
- Movement
After you’ve listened, I invite you to connect with us on social media. I love to hear how this is helping you, so make sure you tag me on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite takeaway from the episode.
As a Capacity Coach, my philosophy is that when you flow effortlessly, you flourish tremendously. And when you do, it allows you to show up in excellence in all the areas of your life. Because I’ve been in your shoes, I am excited to be your guide on this journey. My promise is to help you increase your capacity by creating balance between your personal and professional life, without ever having to sacrifice yourself, your family, and what matters most to you!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast, it makes a big difference! And of course, make sure you share this with at least 3 women you know need to hear this!
Nicole’s Contact Info:
Website Complimentary Capacity Check-in Capacity Calculator
Instagram Flow and Flourish Community LinkedIn
Mariah's Contact Info